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Welcome to Chatter on Children - where we talk about everything and anything under the sun that has got to do with... Yes you guess it! K-I-D-S! You are more than welcome to drop a message or two. And don't forget to bring a friend who may be interested on our posts.

Kids Clothing Too Sexy?

October 10th 2006 12:53
A new report by the Australian Institute has raised the hackles of some major department stores.

The report claims that children (particularly young girls) used in catalogues to promote clothing are being portrayed in a sexually suggestive manner.

The report also states that major department stores are encouraging sexuality in young children by selling skimpy underwear for the pre-pubescent child.

Is this pedophilia panic gone mad?

According to the author, Emma Rush, the use of photographs of young girls in sexually suggestive poses encourages pedophiles to view the children as sexual objects. You can read more here.

Is this picture sexually suggestive?



Junk mail day is favourite in my house. I like to sit with a cup of coffee and browse through the latest specials on offer from Target, Big W, Best and Less, David Jones and the like. I have to admit; I’ve never looked at a catalogue and felt disgusted at how the children were posed – but maybe it comes down to the fact that I’m not a pedophile and therefore, not looking at the catalogues for the kids but for the clothes.

I’m not sure what to make of little bra’s and panties for pre-pubescent girls, though I have noticed an increase in the number of stores stocking these items.

There are times when I see young girls that are dressed up in miniature versions of a teenager’s wardrobe that I wonder what their parents are thinking. Are they dressing their child for other people to ooh and ah over or are they dressing their child for comfort?

I think I’m probably lucky in that I have a son and boys’ clothes are pretty limited. Jack’s wardrobe is pretty standard – shorts, jeans and shirts. The only way I get to vary it is by colour.

Do you think that kids clothing is too sexy? Are corporations abusing children by the way they dress and photograph them for their catalogues?

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Comment by Ahmed

October 10th 2006 13:20
How about underage teens being used to model for things targetted at middle aged women?

Anyway, clothing being 'too sexy', even with kids is probably more associated wtih females than with males. It works best to condition girls early in their life to get used to wearing barely there clothing. It is part of a far more widespread problem of forcing women to dress in a 'sexy' manner otherwise imply they have low self esteem.

Whatever happened to respecting yourself?

Comment by Joy

October 10th 2006 17:07
I have seen some parents dress their kids up clothes that look like it would fit better on a 20-something. Of course, I live (well, not right now due to college) in Hawai`i and I see a lot of little girls in bikinis. I think it's probably easier for the parents to clean them off if they have two pieces instead of one. Not really sure, though.

Comment by Cinico

October 10th 2006 19:25
Hi Ahmed

There are a growing number of underaged teens walking the catwalks these days!

I have to say though, that in the major department store catalogues I've viewed they've stuck to using age appropriate models for promotion.

As children get older I think (lack of) respect for themselves and peer pressure does cause a lot of anxiety in the dress stakes.

Went the bikini was bought in their was an outrage - and things have got a lot skimpier since then!

Comment by Cinico

October 10th 2006 19:28
Hi Joy

Thanks for stopping by.

When I visit shopping centres I often see young girls out and think 'If that were my daughter, there's no way I'd let her leave home dressed like that!'

Of course, she's not my daughter and it's not up to me what she wears. Still.......

I'm not sure why parents put their little girls in bikini's - I'd assume it would be the same to wash them as it would a one-piece. Maybe because it's cooler?

Comment by Ahmed

October 11th 2006 04:26
They'll just keep on pushing it and pushing it, it has to end somewhere, but I doubt it.

Comment by Little Angry Doll

October 11th 2006 09:57
Hum. Interesting post.

While channel surfing the other day, I came across an early episode of "The Brady Bunch". Carole and Mike would be under heavy scrutiny these days for the way Cindy was dressed. It may have been cute then to dress little girls in mini dresses, but I actually found myself shocked.

Comment by spain01

October 11th 2006 10:05
There has been a suggestion that children’s clothing is becoming more sexy and that as a result of this children are more sexualized. There is actually little foundation for this and a review of adult clothing since the advent of the bikini indicates that children’s clothing has always mimicked adult clothing, Children were put in brief bikini’s early on, children’s bras have been just as available as adult examples over the last fifty years. If anything children are more covered than they used to be as it was common practice early last century and right until the early seventies for children to bath naked at the sea side. The issue is receiving more attention lately because of Jon Bennet etc but what it reflects more than anything is the ignorance of the modern press.

Comment by Home Natural Remedies

October 12th 2006 02:05
Yes - and it starts really young - I love dressing my daughters in adorable dresses but now that my oldest is 6 she is in a different section of the girls department - and I hate it - a 6 year old has no business with "Cute" written on her but with a sequenced halter top!!

Comment by Brenton

October 12th 2006 04:48

Comment by Cinico

October 12th 2006 08:06
Hi Spain01

I would think that as adult clothing has become less conservative so too has children's clothing.

Selling bra and undies sets for young girls has been around for a while but the number of stores stocking these products has increased.

I think with the increasing panic over pedophiles/child pornography there's been higher awareness and attention drawn to the clothing of young children.

Thanks for your comment.

Comment by Ahmed

October 12th 2006 08:19
Like I said, part of a bigger problem. But I'm apparently not (perhaps even justifiably) not intune with modern trends.

Comment by MelissaA

October 16th 2006 02:57
Forget the paedopliles etc, it's just plain wrong!
I've seen that many little girls and I mean little - like 4 and 5 years old, wearing skimpy clothing that if it was on an adult you would think they were prostitutes.
Seriously, for some clothing it's just gone too far, and with myself having girls I really notice it.

But it's not just the skimpy clothing that's a problem.

I've often had problems in the past finding things like plain ordinary shorts of a decent, not-right-up their-butt look. Instead they will sell short skirts. Well what do you think little girls and babies I might add (even more impractical) do in short skirts - they show everyone their undies, get them caught on and in things.

It's harder to organise them to look after the skirt during toilet training and as for being in colours like white and pale pink , you just can't get more impractical.
But trying to get a pair of normal shorts that they can play in and don't cause any problems - well not always easy, although I have been able to find some of late.

Then you go through the skimpy clothing for 7 year olds with 'cute' and 'sexy' written on them.

Then we work our way up to the teens with the midriff tops and hipsters - now I'm not a complete prude - on some girls I guess it's OK, they're old enough to know what they're doing anyway, and if they aren't they should work it out first, but then you get the ones who have their plumber's crack showing etc - definitely not sexy, and a definite turn off, along with rolls of tummy fat hanging over the tops of the pants like handles.

Sorry for the rant but I've recently been out in public with many of the above examples and quite frankly I've had my fill for the week. Doesn't anybody know how to dress anymore?
And for the young girls who really are trying to look sexy, hasn't anyone ever explained to them before about the benefits of a bit of mystery?

In fact in my younger dating days, there were the days where I got all dressed up and the days where I made almost no effort, and you know which was the more successful? The plain ordinary outfit days.

In fact one night that I had a first date with a guy, I was wearing a plain white T-shirt, sneakers and a pair of old blue jeans with paint stains on them having accidentally picked up my Uni jeans in a hurry instead of the clean ones as planned.

The same night, 3 other guys tried to pick me up
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And as for my date? - We're now happily married.

To this day he still reminisces about me and my paint covered jeans.

Comment by Wendi

October 25th 2006 23:49
I replied to a similar post elsewhere today where the author spoke of thongs for four year olds. Does it get any more ridiculous than that? And the trend in pre-teens is to wear shirts that expose the bra, and wear their hip-huggers with g-string straps raised above the hip line. It disgusts me! I've had young girls give me the lip smack and eyeroll when I tell them to cover up in front of me, "Honey, I don't want to see your underwear. If you want to talk to me, go put some clothes on."

My own daughter is twelve, to be thirteen in January and it's a constant point of mine to instill in her the difference between attractive and trashy. It is entirely possible to feel beautiful, or even sensual, without showing your flesh or your panties! I've worked hard to teach her that the kids of boys she'd attract with that kind of garb is not the kind of attention she really wants.

I'm amazed that some of the schools aren't enforcing stricter dress codes here in the US. When I was in school, we'd get sent home if our skirt or shorts were above the knee - and I'm only 34! Now, you can drive by a local junior high school and feel like you're watching a Victoria's Secrets catwalk!

This is one reason, among many, that my children are homeschooled and we live in a rural area.

However, we can't blame the manufacturers or the advertisers; we can only blame the parents because fashion is business and, as was mentioned in a reply here from someone else, it all comes down to the bottom dollar. If people weren't buying this stuff, the big businesses wouldn't advertise it!

Comment by Anonymous

October 26th 2006 00:13
Ok, thats it, I really don't care anymore, if it won't log me in bugger it, i'm not clearing my cookies, not this time!



I think they should teach modesty at school... yeah, it should be a compulsory unit...

Comment by Anonymous

November 14th 2006 15:20
I completely agree with the comment about children's clothes mimicing adult's clothing - therein lies part of the problem. Women have complained for years that they don't get any respect because men spend all their time staring at their chests instead of listening to them. Why do they think that is? If we would wear something a little more modest that didn't scream "hey, check me out," then the temptation wouldn't be so great for the poor guy who can't concentrate!
What are we teaching our daughters? That it's more important to snag someone's attention by the way that we look on the outside? Why is this okay? I also have seen young girls out in public and thought "if I ever have a daughter and she tries to go out of the house like that, we're really going to have it out!"
I'm glad we're expecting a son so we don't have to worry about the "sexy" dress-code that's acceptable and even expected of girls today - but now I have to worry about him being tempted as fashion only gets worse...

Comment by Anonymous

May 21st 2007 18:31
what are you on about of course its not to sexy its just the fashion i have to girls my self and i let them were what ever they wish they have what they want and when they want it but i dont think that kids clothes now days are to sexy for christ sake what is it with parents now days cant you just chill and go were ever fashion takes them!!

Comment by Anonymous

May 21st 2007 18:32
what are you on about of course its not to sexy its just the fashion i have to girls my self and i let them were what ever they wish they have what they want and when they want it but i dont think that kids clothes now days are to sexy for christ sake what is it with parents now days cant you just chill and go were ever fashion takes them!!

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